Early recovery is a delicate time; someone in early recovery must go through several biological, social, and psycho-emotional changes that can be difficult to handle. Below, I’ve listed five (5) common challenges and some options for dealing with them*:
- Friends and associates who use: You want to continue associations with old friends or friends who use.
- Try to make new friends at 12-Step or mutual-help meetings.
- Participate in new activities or hobbies that will increase your chances of meeting abstinent people.
- Plan activities with abstinent friends or family members.
- Anger, irritability: Small events can create feelings of anger that seem to preoccupy your thoughts and can lead to relapse.
- Remind yourself that recovery involves a healing of brain chemistry. Strong, unpredictable emotions are a natural part of recovery.
- Engage in exercise.
- Talk to a counselor or a supportive friend.
- Substances in the home: You have decided to stop using, but others in your house may still be using.
- Get rid of all drugs and alcohol.
- Ask others to refrain from using and drinking at home.
- If you continue to have a problem, think about moving out for a while.
- Boredom, loneliness: Stopping substance use often means that activities you did for fun and the people with whom you did them must be avoided.
- Put new activities in your schedule.
- Go back to activities you enjoyed before your addiction took over.
- Develop new friends at 12-Step or mutual-help meetings.
- Special occasions: Parties, dinners, business meetings, and holidays without substance use can be difficult.
- Have a plan for answering questions about not using substances. Start your own abstinent celebrations and traditions.
- Have your own transportation to and from events.
- Leave if you get uncomfortable or start feeling deprived
*Taken from: Client Handbook: Matrix Intensive Outpatient Treatment for People with Stimulant Use Disorders
March 24, 2017 at 12:49 pm
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March 24, 2017 at 6:03 pm
Number #2 & 4 are important to know for family members of those addicted. Open dialogue with the addict & his/her family on all of these challenges can make a big difference in recovery.